Some Days I Want To Throw My Laptop Out The Window

It’s true.

Don’t get me wrong, being an entrepreneur is all kinds of incredible.

It’s empowering, it’s freeing, and it’s powerful.

I wouldn’t change it for the world.

But there is that other side of it. The side that people don’t get to see. The side that sometimes makes you question if you are on the right path or not.

The Tough Days Are Tough

Let’s be real, you are going to have tough days. Those days where you feel like giving up. Days where you just want to curl up in a ball and cry. I’m talking about the days you go without eating because you’re too busy, or the moments you literally want to throw your laptop off a rooftop. You know the ones.

You’ll have days of have losses, fears, and countless sleepless nights wondering if you will make enough money this month to pay the bills.

So how do we move past those days and keep going?

There’s no doubt those days make it hard to stay motivated. You try not to compare yourself to others but sometimes that overwhelm starts to creep in. The thing is, no matter what it might look like on your Instagram or Facebook, every single entrepreneur has those days. Even the best of the best face hurdles, setbacks and mountains that they have to overcome. The more you have to do it, the better you’ll get at it.

Here’s five tips that will help you build up that resiliency muscle:

1. Never forget your “why
   This is your reason for the whole entrepreneurial leap you’ve taken. Remind yourself every single day why you’re doing what you’re doing and let it keep you focused.

2. Remain disciplined, determined, and dedicated.
   Keep laser-focused on your dreams and know that your dedication and determination will pay off (even if it doesn’t seem like it in the moment!).

3. Surround yourself with people who lift you up.⠀
   I’ve spoken extensively about the importance of having a support crew around you. These are the people that will help you to pick yourself up when it all seems a bit too hard. Reach out to them and lean on them- it’s what they are there for!

4. Celebrate your wins, big AND small!
   Make sure you take the time every single day to celebrate ANY kind of win. You are amazing and it’s time you remember that!

5. Ask for support when you need it.
   Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Despite what it might feel like, there is absolutely wrong with putting up your hand and asking for support.

Remember The Positives

There is always something to smile about so always try to focus on one positive thing a day. Maybe it’s a smile from a stranger, maybe it’s a hot cup of cocoa, whatever it is allow yourself to enjoy the moment and truly smile about it!

Trust your journey, face your fears head on, let your obstacles be lessons, and the roadblocks you face be the signs you need to change course.

Every day won’t be easy, but I promise you it will be so worth it.

Move past your fears, take the leap and see what happens.